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02:42 27th Feb 2012

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Reblogged from bialogue-group

Tags: dating relationships bisexuality LGBTQ bi erasure bisexual erasure straight privilege hetero privilege heterosexual privilege privilege bi pride

Bisexuality and Dating

bialogue-group:

cloudofgorgeousness:

Something that occurred to me recently: I am never in a straight relationship, and I am never in a gay relationship, although my partners may be. I am always in a bisexual relationship, regardless of the gender of the person I’m dating.

Yes! Yes! Yes! One of the many reasons that the accusations sometimes leveled at bisexual people in different gender relationships of deliberately accessing some sort of ‘heterosexual privilege’ is such a fallacy. Bisexual people, by definition, can never be in a ‘Straight Relationship’ becasue We Are Not Straight!

Privilege comes from the closet (or perhaps from some sort of mistake on the part of the viewer) not from self-identification.
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  ^^^^^^^ everything about this, yesss
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  So, you should definitely go read...an addendum. Crow told me
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  almost fall over with
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  Excellent distinction and explanation.
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  ugh ALL OF THIS Even if I date a dude or have sex with him, I think I’m going to still consider that sex pretty queer...
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  Not sure how I missed this conversation in the first place. I really appreciate the perspectives here, especially the...
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